EPT5-Session3- High Conflict DivorceConsultation with Parents of Children Welcome to your EPT5-Session3- High Conflict DivorceConsultation with Parents of Children Name Business Email Phone Number The EPT therapist can assess that a parent is not psychologically minded when: The parent uses withdrawal of the child’s security toys to punish him. The parent uses negative control of the child’s behavior to change behavior. The parent believes the child is doing the inappropriate behavior intentionally. All of the above. None The boy in the video felt rejection when his mother beat him in the card game. True False None When the boy in the video put on the ghost costume, he was conveying to his mother that she does not see him for who he is and he does not receive the value he seeks from her. True False None When presenting an overview of the EPT model to parents and the dominate parent disagrees with the concepts, the best way to handle the situation is to: Plead with the other parent to try this model because their child needs it so desperately. Address the parent’s concern and recommend that they may want to consider another approach. Tell them that EPT is the only approach that will help their child with the specific problem. Paradox the parents by saying that no other approach will solve their child’s issues. None In EPT, if the therapist asks the parent if the child is displaying lying, stealing and cheating behavior, the next question should be: What type of items does the child like to steal? Give an example of how the child uses lying to get what he wants? How does the child relate to the family pet and the pet to him? How does the child cheat with other children when playing a game? None When the mother in the video asked her son how many cards are in a deck, she was controlling him with content questions so that she could avoid her own emotionality. True False None The first sign of change in the mother was when she gave a compliment to her son that he was a natural. True False None The mother starts to create a task with the marbles, so the therapist said what statement to get the mother refocused: The task of making the marbles a circle is not the purpose here. The valuable marbles are like the value in your son. You have the nicest son I have seen in play therapy. When you play with your son, he feels more valued. None The mother in this case was able to change because when she was led in the direction of her son’s needs, her son responded with attentive behavior until she disrupted this process with a task statement which the therapist redirected back to the relationship. True False None The most positive verbal statement made by the boy was: I hit the jackpot. I love playing “War” with you. Being with you [mom] is my favorite time. Why do you love me so much? None The three necessary components of positive outcome in EPT are: The child playing with the use of metaphorical, symbolic, and representational play. The therapist playing with the child and understanding the meaning of the child’s expressions. The parents adjusting to the regressive nurturing needs of the child as prescribed by the therapist. All of the above happening together. None One of the purposes that the boy was trying to communicate to his mother was that he is a good athlete and wanted his mother to appreciate this skill. True False None One reason the mother was so slow in attending to her son was that she is distractible and focused in other directions of her life. True False None We want to know the history of the presenting problem because: It tells the therapist the style of onset of the current issue: if it was acute or chronic. It a way to get to know the parents’ relationship with each other. It tells the therapist what the parents have tried to alleviate the behavior problem. A and C above. None EPT is more effective when parents (caregivers) are involved more directly in the therapeutic process. True False None The parent with the most control over the child has the best chance for positive outcome in EPT. True False None At intake, many parents usually view the child by their child’s behavior rather than by the stressors affecting the child. True False None According to the lecture, “CDCD” parents are parents who parent by using which dynamics: Control, Dependency, Consideration, and Direction. Command, Demand, Control, and Domination. Change, Direction, Consideration, and Development. Consistency, Determination, Clarification, and Dignity. None Some parents defeat the positive outcome of play therapy because their issues of changing are greater than the capacity of the child to change. True False None A motto of EPT is “Children don’t care how much you know until they know how much you care.” True False None Time's up